THE RUNNER’S BREAKTHROUGH

Runner’s block, not writer’s block. You read it right! It’s a mental block directly related to running, and yes it’s a real thing!

Let me say, I am no stranger to running. I ran track in middle, in high school I ran cross country and I was on the varsity track team. Now fast forward to my 30s and I HATE running. I legit get nauseous and/or anxious thinking about it. Yet, if I don’t run, then my other forms of cardio include the elliptical, stair master, row or bike and let’s just face it, there is nothing and I mean nothing like a runner’s high.

So I decided to make running a habit. Every time I walk into the gym I have to run. That’s my habit. I didn’t stipulate how fast or for how long, but every time I workout in a gym, I have demanded (from myself) that I run. This doesn’t seem like too hard of a goal… at least it didn’t until I realized I had runner’s block. I literally felt dread every time I looked at a treadmill. How am I overcoming the block?

Keep Reading to find out!

CREATE A FIRE PLAYLIST

This is self explanatory. Music fuels everything! I literally have a “running” (pun intended) RUN playlist and a MOTIVATION playlist on deck to fuel my mindset during my runs. If a song comes on that I like, it’s that much eazier for me to get lost in the music and even forget that I’m running.

WARM UP

I noticed that if my legs feel stiff and it’s hard to move them, it makes the exercise extremely uncomfortable and therefore unpleasant for me. Doing a proper warm up can not only change how your body feels during the run, but it can also prevent injuries and enhance performance.

PRACTICE MINDFULNESS DURING YOUR RUN

One of the benefits of mindfulness is that it enables you to focus and be present in the moment. If you can learn to be more present for your run, you might learn that there is joy to be found in the movement. Some mindfulness exercises can be counting your inhales and exhales or visualizing yourself running on a path at your ideal destination.

SLOW DOWN INSTEAD OF GIVING UP

For a while my whole focus was on getting faster. Run faster Run faster, but then I realized that my urgency to speed up was actually slowing me down because I would feel blocked during the run and then quit. Instead of pushing myself to the point of quitting, I decided to just slow down and allow my habit to evolve in its own time.

ALTERNATE BETWEEN LONG AND SHORT DISTANCES

Long runs can be boring! I mean how much can you think about for three miles?! And do we even want to be thinking that much?? To eliminate boredom I try to add variety by doing tabata runs or uphill sprints.

FIND A TRIBE

I honestly can’t stress this enough!! Use the people around you to help motivate you! When you have someone who shares a common goal, the journey to the finish line is that much eazier and that much sweeter! Don’t do it by yourself if you don’t have to.

Have you ever dealt with runner’s block? Drop your tips and tricks for breaking through! I’d love to hear from you!

NOTHING IS MISSING

“Contentment is falling in love with your life” – Swami Rama

Would you rather be free in contement or imprisoned in lack?

There are things that I really want in my life.

Over the past few months I found myself really obsessing over not having those things. To be fully transparent I want a life partner, and a family. I was so focused on what I didn’t have and thinking about what I needed to do to attain them, that I realized I wasn’t happy with my present, not because there wasn’t joy there, but I couldn’t see it because I was so focused on my future joy. 

That’s been a pattern for me. I set my eye on something I want, and then I hyper focus until I get it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m super happy once I achieve my goal, but what if I could’ve been happy throughout the entire process? 

I feel like there’s this idea that if you are content, then you aren’t growing. Kind of like contentment with your present  is equivalent to lack of motivation for your future. 

But is that true? Contentment and complacency are not the same thing.

Can you be happy with where you are in life today and still have goals for where you want to be tomorrow or the next day? 

Yes. You can.

Santosha- is a Niyama or observance that means Contentment. 

Keep reading for some guided journal prompts in the practice of Santosha.

ARE YOU HAPPY WITH WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE?

If you aren’t happy do you feel like fear of missing out or the grass being greener on the other side are affecting how you feel about your current situation?

HAVE YOU EVER CONSIDERED THAT YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH WHERE YOU ARE NOW AND HAPPY WHEN YOU ATTAIN THE THINGS YOU THINK YOU NEED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY?

Try identifying non-external sources of happiness. These are things that you can actually control. Take control of your happiness by directing it in inwards vs. outwards.

WHEN YOU SET YOUR WEEKLY OR MONTHLY OR EVEN YEARLY INTENTIONS, DO THEY ALLOW FOR SPACE TO BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENT?

 Or is everything focused on the future? 

If you are always thinking about the next move or the next step, how do you have time to enjoy the now? 

Can you reframe your thinking so that you can prepare for the future and enjoy the present simultaneously?

Being content doesn’t negate aspirations, it creates space to enjoy, understand, and appreciate where you are. It provides the understanding that you don’t NEED any external sources to make you happy because happiness is an inside job. It eliminates the stress of FOMO and reinforces the ease of being present in the moment.  

State this affirmation: NOTHING IS MISSING. I have everything I need. My life is complete, I am complete.

THE GIFT OF SELF STUDY

It’s the season for giving!! There’s just something about the excitement that people get opening beautifully wrapped boxes filled with gifts! 

I just wish I got that excited when it came to unwrapping myself. As people we are composed of “boxes” constructed by our life experiences. We have all these boxes that form our beliefs and our views and then we wrap those boxes with pretty paper and that’s the presentation that everyone sees. 

The question I recently asked myself is “Is the present better wrapped or open? “ The presentation is beautiful, but what we all really want is on the inside. 

So who are you without the wrapping paper? At the core, unboxed… Who is your divine self? These are questions I’ve been asking myself as I explore the Niyama called Svadhaya or Self Study. 

Keep reading for some journal prompts on the journey to knowing yourself.

EVALUATE YOUR TRUTH VERSUS REALITY

Are they the same or are they different?

There is a popular saying that The world is yours. Why is the world ours? Because what we see, how we feel, how we interpret experiences are based off our inner workings.  If you don’t believe me, find someone from your tribe, read about an event that took place and then compare and contrast how you all see that event. 

In order to understand why we see the world the way we do… we have to stop looking out and start looking in. We perceive the world not as it is, but as we are. 

IDENTIFY THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU

Ask yourself why it made you feel the way you do, and when you come up with an answer ask yourself why again? 

In moments of disharmony press rewind. Play it back in your mind. Why did it bother you. Can you connect it to one of your boxes? Can you unwrap it, get to the bottom of it. The truth of it all.

I think when we answer questions like this, the initial response is surface. When I ask myself why, I try to ask ATLEAST twice. I want to know the real answer! The real reason, hidden beneath the layers of why.

OBSERVE THE WAY YOU COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS

Do you find that certain things are commonly lost in interpretation? 

For me I used to see this mostly in my relationship. My ex would say one thing, and I took it to mean something else and vice versa. My feelings were projected on the conversation and based off of how the words in the conversation made me feel, that’s how I interpreted what was being said . I’m not saying I was right or wrong, but I think that my decoding of the information that was delivered is very telling about what I had/have going on inside of me.

Take notes on how you decipher communication from others. When you run into a situation where there may be miscommunication write down what was said, what the person actually meant by it, and how you took it. Then once again ask yourself why you took it that way.

DESCRIBE YOUR EGO

We all have one. Our ego’s say a lot about who we are. There’s no judgement in it. Just write down the words that come to mind.

Then write down interactions where your ego likes to come out and play. 

What’s the connection between the circumstance and the appearance of your ego? 

WRITE DOWN WHAT YOUR THINK YOUR BOXES ARE

If you’re having trouble labeling the boxes try writing down how you feel about love, anger, sadness, beliefs, pet peeves, etc.

For example: for me, right now I feel disheartened about love, the emotion of anger bothers me, sadness is a very familiar feeling, I believe people should treat others with kindness, and I don’t like when people wear shoes in my house. 

Look at what you wrote. How does this reflect who you are at your core and do you think it accurately depicts your true self? These views, these feelings form who u are, what you see, what and how you react to life occurrences. 

Do you like what you see? If not, the way to reshape and remold starts with breaking down and then throwing out certain boxes.

WRITE DOWN 5-10 THINGS THIS PRACTICE HAS HELPED YOU LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF

Baddha Virabhadrasana ”Humble Warrior Pose” – amongst other things, this asana cultivates a sense of introspection.

These are the five that I came up with:

-I have a resilient heart & I love hard

-I let my emotions dictate my actions 

-I am sweet natured to the core. It’s one of my traits that I honor and appreciate the most.

-I am triggered when I think someone is going to leave me because of things that have happened in my past 

-I am projecting when I get agitated at people who under communicate because I often under communicate.

-I often stifle my own voice in order to make it easier for others

When I look at what I wrote, I’m not ecstatic about some of these statements, but I know that they are true AND I now know what areas I might want to work on and how to work on them.

In this season of gifts, take some time to unwrap yourself. Remind yourself of the gift you are!

THE POWER OF SURRENDER

This is not what I imagined my life would be like.

 Have you ever said this to yourself? I have. Several times. 

10 years ago, if you would’ve asked me what I saw for my life I would’ve imagined that at 35 I would be a well established dentist, happily married with three kids. Well I’m not married and I don’t have kids, but I am a well established Navy dentist in a healthy relationship and also a yoga teacher and personal trainer. I am happy and blessed even though the path I took to get the things I wanted was not what I envisioned. While I may not have everything I thought I would have at this moment in time, whose to say I won’t receive it in the future?

There have been times where I’ve asked God to do something for me, but then I questioned the methods & time that he took to do it. My impatience with His process revealed my lack of faith and trust that He would get it done. I’ve done this often, and in reflection, I had to tell myself that what I was asking for couldn’t be achieved alone and as a result, I realized I needed to have several seats. I needed to buckle up and just enjoy the ride.

I think we fight the flow of our life because maybe it’s uncomfortable or maybe it doesn’t fit our expectations, or because we don’t like the feeling of not being in control, but maybe there’s a better way. Instead of working against what’s going on in our lives, maybe we work with it. Trying to walk in the same direction instead of the opposite direction so we don’t miss the opportunities that may be awaiting us. 

Ishvara Pranidhana – “The jewel of surrender” is a Niyama that focuses on surrendering in certain aspects of your life acknowledging that there is a higher power in control.

Keep reading for some journal prompts to work through this Niyama.

Shavasana or Corpse Pose is a pose of relaxation and stillness. It is an asana in which you surrender yourself to the present moment.

THINK ABOUT A TIME YOU HAVE SURRENDERED IN THE PAST.

What was the outcome and how did you feel before , during and after letting go?

WHAT BATTLE ARE YOU FIGHTING NOW?

Why are you fighting this battle? Is it benefiting you? Is it adding or taking away from your wellness?

WRITE DOWN THE PROS AND CONS OF LETTING GO.

Compare your lists. Will it hurt you to surrender to a higher power?

HOW MUCH ENERGY IS IT TAKING YOU TO RESIST?

It takes a lot of energy and focus to try to gain control over a situation you aren’t meant to have control over. Imagine if you stopped resisting, what could you do with that energy? How could you redirect your focus.

I have an A type personality. Feeling in control gives me comfort, but I realize that there are things in life that I cannot control. I don’t have to be in the driver’s seat to get to my destination. It’s okay to be a passenger, let God drive and allow myself to be present on the journey. The process of surrendering is not inactive or weak. It’s a manuever, like playing chess. Learning to go with the flow of our lives, leaves us with more energy to understand and appreciate the path we are on. 

How can you practice surrendering in your life? 

OPTIMIZE YOUR TO DO LIST!!

What’s one thing that every adult has in common? A To Do List! While they might not have the same content, the fact of the matter is that we all have something to do! It’s just a part of life. Now the question is do we or do we not actually make a list? Well if you ask me, I’m making a list every time! I am a checker offer. ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️ It literally brings me peace and joy to check things off. I feel organized, effective, and productive! It also just helps me remember the massive amount of tasks that I have to complete. To Do Lists are awesome when done right, but they can also be stressful when done wrong. 

Keep reading to see how I make my lists more efficient!

1. GET THE ESSENTIALS

A To Do starter kit is a must! What does it require? 

  • Small Size Sticky Notes
  • Medium Size Sticky Notes
  • Small note paper pad
  • Colorful pens

I bought these items together in bulk at target for less than  $25.00. 

I like to have specific items designated for making my list because it’s easier to keep up with and in my mind it gives the list a level of importance. If I have my iPad, my computer, and my list kit, I know some things are about to get done!! 

2. CREATE A COLOR CODE

I select 3-4 different color pens and then I assign a priority level from low to high and then urgent. When I used to study for tests in college and dental school I would always use different color highlighters and pens to write and absorb my notes. It was something about the colors that made my notes pop and thus easier to remember. It may be a little anal to assign the priority levels, but just think about a list written in all black w/ no organization vs. one that has 4 colors and each color tells you the level of importance of what you need to do. I’m way more efficient when I color code. 

3. BREAK YOUR LIST DOWN

I always feel like I have a million and one things to do and when I write them all down on one page, I get overwhelmed and my anxiety levels go up immediately! Also, if all my tasks are on one sheet, I try to do them simultaneously. At one point I thought being a “multitasker” made me a high functioning individual, but then i realized when I multitask I never complete my list, I stay forgetting things, and although things are getting checked off, the quality of what I’m getting done is compromised. So I break my list down into three. 

1.A weekly list, which is the master copy and holds everything that needs to be done. 

2.A daily list which is a smaller snapshot and limits how much you can do. I put my top five tasks on this sticky. 

3.A single task sticky on which I write one action down at a time. When I complete it I cross it off the other lists and then choose the next one up. It eliminates multitasking, keeps me focused and I complete my list!!

Another reason I like to break the list down is because you can place them in different locations as reminders. I’m always moving throughout the day, so having reminders in different places ensures that I don’t forget the list I made myself at the beginning of the day. 

There’s obviously more than one way to make a ToDo list. This works for me, and I’m hoping it will give you an idea of how to approach organizing your own list! I would love to hear if you are a list maker and if so what are your tips and tricks to make your list more effective?! 

BODY ANALYSES: The “SMART” way to weigh yourself!

Traditional scales are a scam!

Ever since the 6th grade  I’ve been the type of person that weighs themself everyday. Literally everyday. I did/do that because it allows me to keep long term track of my weight and I don’t tend to gain more than 5 pounds because I’m so aware of how much I weigh. When I start gaining weight I know immediately and can make the necessary changes. I think we all have different types of relationships with the scale… whether I have a healthy one with it or not well that’s another topic for another blog.

But I’ve been traveling and in transition for the last four months and as a result I haven’t had access to a scale on a daily basis. I recently signed up with a new gym and they offered me two InBody Scale analyses for the FREE! So of course I hopped on that deal! 

Keep reading to see what I experienced and learned during my analysis.

MY EXPERIENCE

So this is how my experience went.

Stepping on the Scale!

A trainer contacted me two days prior to my appointment and gave me basic instructions to track my food and drink lots of water. I went to the InBody website and they have a pre-appt informational video (which I’ve posted below). Some instructions they give are:

-Don’t drink for 45 mins prior to resting

-Don’t eat 2-3 hours prior

-Don’t workout atleast 3 hours prior 

-Stick to your normal eating routine the day before

When I arrived I got on a scale and held these little handles for about a minute. Then from there I filled out a questionnaire that really aimed to identify my existing fitness and nutrition habits, what my current goals are, and how do I prioritize my goals. I was then given my Body Composition Analysis and the trainer proceeded to break down the stats. 

https://inbodyusa.com/general/inbody-test/

WHAT I LEARNED

From the breakdown of my stats, this is what I learned.

-I have inflammation in my body and I need to drink more water.

-I don’t consume enough protein for my lean body mass (LBM). As a general rule we should be consuming 1 gram of protein per pound of lean body mass in order to maintain. When I tracked my food my average daily protein intake was 90 g, but LBM is 119. 

-My basal metabolic rate is 1550 calories which is the minimum number of calories my body needs to function at rest. So I need to consume that amount of calories to function at a basic level. Based off of my tracking of food for the few days prior to the meeting I wasn’t eating enough calories. Who would’ve thought I’m not eating enough?!!! 

-I haven’t really identified a specific goal. I think I’m really just trying to maintain. She gave me a website (Tdeccalculator.net) that helped me identify my maintenance and cutting calorie consumption and the corresponding macros.

-We talked about my workouts and how I should organize them. She stressed that it’s important to work primary muscles prior to synergistic/secondary muscles because if you work those first, you’re simultaneously working the primary, so when you finally go to work the primary muscles they’re already tired and your form be compromised leading to a greater risk of injury.

INFO

WHAT I LIKE

I really learned about my body. It was like a speed date introduction to my body. I didn’t have to make assumptions. It gave me exact insight on how to adjust my eating habits. My trainer was professional and informative. She knew what she was talking about and I came out of the session with a decent understanding of how I should move forward. I was given tools to help like a list of food options to eat to help meet my macros, a website to help identify and count macros, and the opportunity to sign up for personal training. 

It was a fairly quick process and I left it feeling encouraged which is not often how one feels after being weighed.

MY TAKEAWAY

A traditional scale is pretty much useless. Why? Because it’s not an indicator of health. It gives you a number that doesn’t distinguish between fat, muscle, or water which is what our bodies are made up of. It literally just gives you a number with no background information. 

60 seconds on a high tech scale and 20 minutes with a professional gave me more information about my “weight” than the scale has given me in the past 20 + years.

So here’s some food for thought… or questions to ask yourself (because I asked myself these questions after my experience).

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

(1) What type of scale person are you? 

i.e. daily, weekly, monthly, not at all

(2) Does your method of weighing yourself assist you in your body composition goals?

If you haven’t tried the BCA you definitely should. There are a lot of gyms that offer this service, but maybe you don’t have a gym and you only do home workouts. They have started making at home affordable scales that measure more than just weight. 

I’ve dropped a link to an article that’s identified and rated the top 5 smart scales of 2021. 

Top5smartscales.com 

Throw your scale away! It’s time to weigh ourselves the “SMART”  way!

PRT SEASON: Prepping for the Navy Physical Readiness Test

It’s officially PRT ( physical readiness test) season, and this time around it’s daunting for a few reasons! ONE: this is the first time that we’ll be doing the plank as a core exercise. TWO: they’ve introduced the rower as a new cardio option which could be a good or bad thing, that’s yet to be determined. THREE: we haven’t had a PRT in well over a year!!! Everything was put on hold when the pandemic hit, and here we are about to see who stayed ready and who has to get ready. I’m not even gone lie, I definitely have to get ready and I have less than a month to do it. 

The Navy’s Physical Readiness Test is comprised of cardio-respiratory  and muscular strength and endurance. Cardio options include an outdoor run, swimming, indoor run, bike, or treadmill.  Strength and endurance  are tested through push-ups, and planks.

It seems simple and from the outside looking in, it should be easy until you insert the test part! One, you’re physically being evaluated and two, we have certain times and scores to make that affect our careers. So you add that pressure and the fact that whoever created the score chart must have been a former college or professional athlete and yea something that should be easy can get real hard, real quick. 

So how am I approaching PRT season? Keep reading to find out!

1. IDENTIFY A GOAL

You need to know what you’re training for.

The overall score categories are Outstanding, Excellent, Good, Satisfactory, and Failure. 

-Outstanding is the best score that you can get and it usually correlates to an award of a 72 or 96 hour special liberty if achieved. Outstanding is always my ideal goal because time off is obviously a motivator.

-Excellent the next best score is my minimum goal. An excellent score correlates to only having to take one physical readiness test per year and that’s definitely a motivator. 

I always keep my goals between the top two scores. A Good score means that you passed but there is no reward to it and it’s definitely not a stand out identifier to put in your record. The other two scores mean you are barely getting by or not at all and that’s how you end up on a hit list with a compromised career so I don’t even acknowledge those.

2. CHOOSE A FORM OF CARDIO

Push ups and planks are the same for everybody but with cardio we can choose which form works best. I choose my cardio based off which one I can  get the highest score on. I know that running is not my strong point, so for me it’s between the rower and the bike. To be successful in the cardio option you have to be able to go all out or max capacity for anywhere from 8-12 mins. It’s eazier for me to do that if I am using my full body, so I’m choosing the rower as my cardio option this year.  

3. USE A SCORE CALCULATOR

Like I said earlier, you have to know what you’re training for. You need to know what times you need to get the overall score you want. Some resources for calculators  include the Navy PRT app or the Inch calculator. Both allow you to plug in numbers to see exactly what you need. 

See the links below:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/navy-prt-calculator-us-navy-pfa-calculator-bca/id1106088252

Navy PRT Calculator – Calculate Your Physical Readiness Test Score – Inch Calculator

4. CREATE A PROGRAM

You’ve laid the ground work, now all that’s left is creating a plan that will help you get to your end goal. My current plan consists of 5 days of cardio where I bike and run or row and run. Twice a week I will wear a weighted vest to increase the intensity. 

I’ve created a plank program that focuses on strengthening specific muscles that are engaged in the plank, and I do push ups every other day increasing my number by 5 each week. 

This my 9th year going into PRT season. What I’ve found is that consistency, intensity, and a good playlists are the keys to success! Even if you aren’t in the Navy, doing the PRT is a great way to evaluate your current level of physical fitness! For those of you training!! Good Luck!!!

THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO GYM SHOPPING!


As part of my job I have to move every two to three years. While it’s exciting to be able to live in different places, one of the downsides is having to re-establish a home-base. Whenever I move I have to find a new place to live, places to grocery shop, get my hair and nails done, and oh let’s not forget finding a new gym! For me finding a fitness home is a High priority. It’s on the same list as finding an actual home, except obviously way further down the list. 

At the end of July I moved to Norfolk, Virginia and after being displaced for over a month with no steady place to workout, I had to find a gym and I had to find one fast!!! I ended up becoming a member of OneLife Fitness. 

Keep reading to see what qualities I used to choose my new Fitness Home.

1. CONVENIENCE

The whole purpose is to EaZe along this continuous journey and be consistent. I can’t do that if just getting to the gym is going to be difficult. What I like about OneLife is that it has several locations around the Norfolk/Virginia Beach area, so no matter where I go I’m always within 15-20 mins of a gym. Their work hours are also conducive to my work hours. I need a gym that opens up early so that I can workout and still be at work by 6:50. Not only do they have gyms that open up at 0500 but they also have a few gyms that have a 24 hour option during the week. Now that’s what I call #winning !!!!

We already know it’s a struggle just to convince yourself  to go to the gym. So if that gym is too far from work or home, located in a complicated traffic pattern, or has unacceptable hours then it’s definitely going to be a NO for me. 

2. PANDEMIC MODIFICATIONS

I’m trying to stay fit, but not at the expense of my health. We are still in a pandemic and ultimately going to a public gym is a risk, especially because gyms can get crowded. 

OneLife made me feel safe from the start. They have signs posted everywhere that stress that safety and public health are one of their main objectives. They promote mask wearing and following CDC and state guidelines. At every station and in between every station you can find towels and cleaning supplies to wipe the machines down, and out of all the times I’ve been to the gyms, there has never been an instance where there hasn’t been staff actively cleaning. 

Now you might think oh well that’s in every gym. That’s expected! It is expected! But it’s not in every gym. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been to a gym, and they’re out of paper towels or they don’t have wipes or spray to wipe down the equipment. 

To top it all off, the fitness chain has installed AIRPHX units in all of their facilities. AIRPHX units are machines that can reduce bacteria, viruses, and other dangerous toxins in the air and on surfaces in large facilities. 

If I don’t feel safe, I’m not going, so the safety features are definitely a big plus for me. 

3. VERSATILITY

It’s a pet peeve of mine when a gym lacks versatility for workouts. So for example, I’ve been to gyms that had a huge free weight area, a medium cardio section, and some machines, but no functional training area and no studio space. When I walk into a gym I want to feel like I’m in a theme park. I should be able to spend an hour their everyday for two weeks and not have to repeat the same workout. 

OneLife Fitness is definitely the six flags of fitness chains. I haven’t been to all of the locations yet, but of the ones that I’ve visited they all had multiple floors, cardio areas, weightlifting areas w/ free weights & machines, functional training sections, and studio spaces for cycling, fitness classes, yoga and Pilates. Some locations even had pools.

LEVELS!!!!!! AND CHECK THE VIBE! LOVE THE WAREHOUSE FEEL.
STUDIOS…. PLURAL.

Everyone’s approach to fitness is unique, and if you’re like me, I rarely repeat the same workout twice. The options that OneLife Fitness provides for working out makes it feel like an inclusive gym that encourages all types of fitness. 

4. AMENITIES

Amenities are like the WOW factor of fitness facilities. I always want to know, if I’m paying for something monthly, what else do you have to offer me that makes it worth paying for on a continuous basis. OneLife definitely understands this concept. They have several WOW factors. 

#1. Free services-If a gym doesn’t give you free services, then they’re trash, periodt. There should always be some sort of incentive to show members why they should be at that specific gym. Prior to signing up OneLife Fitness offers a free visit to check out the gym. It’s similar to buying a car, you should absolutely be able to test drive a gym prior to buying into it, so this definitely drew me in. They also offer two free personal training sessions and body analyses for new members. This is key because you get to really assess the professional level of their staff and get a starting basis for where you are in your journey without pulling out any coins!!!

#2.Inclusivity- Earlier I referenced how they take into consideration different fitness styles. Well they  also thought outside of the box and considered  the differences in their members and the certain needs/preferences they may have. For example, certain locations have women’s only gyms. Personally I can workout anywhere in the gym, but I know that it can be intimidating going into a male dominant area, so I think having this option absolutely tailors to the need of the population that would like a more private workout. They have a kids center for parents who need to workout but don’t have child care. Additionally they have cinema cardio rooms!!! Like WHAT IS THAT??? You can literally get your cardio on and simultaneously watch a movie! Cardio is Hardio. Having a distraction like cinema is definitely something I appreciate.

Cardio Cinema!!!!!

5. AFFORDABILITY

While a gym is a place for people to sustain fitness, it’s also a business, and over the years I’ve noticed the trend of “luxury gyms” with “luxury prices.” 

But I’ve never felt like the amenities they touted were actually worth paying over $100 a month. That’s literally highway robbery! On the other hand, you have your $10 gyms that have weird rules and no amenities. It’s like two extremes, but OneLife Fitness is definitely a balance of the two. The two monthly membership prices were 29.99 and 39.99 and they didn’t have a ridiculous sign up fee. I honestly think you’re getting way more bang for your buck with this gym!

Choosing a gym is like getting started in a relationship. This is a fitnesship!! It’s a committment and it needs to be a match! My gym and I should be equally yoked!

If you’re looking for a new gym, hopefully evaluating these qualities will help you make a decision and if you have OneLife Fitness in your area, go check it out!! Tell them I sent you! 😉

AGING GRACEFULLY INTO FITNESS

I’m turning 35 in a few days and don’t get me wrong… I am ecstatic about it, but also a little wary. Why? Well because I can’t predict exactly how aging will affect my body or my health.

This summer I decided to recommit myself to running. I hate running, but when I was in middle school and high school I could run a 7 minute mile. Now… not so much. On a good day I’m running it in 9:15, but if the distance increases…. my mind literally just shuts my body down. Now I know this isn’t solely because of age and more likely due to my inconsistency with my running habit and my negative mind set towards it, but when I was inconsistent and young, it didn’t matter. I could still run a fast mile regardless of how long it had been since I practiced. As I age, I realize that I have to adjust my habits in order to maintain a certain level of fitness.

Keep reading to see the steps I’m taking to age gracefully into fitness!

1. SELF CARE

Self Care is such a hot social media term these days, but that’s because it holds value. Self Care results in Self Preservation which really is the Goal! In taking care of our bodies and minds we can effectively prolong or even overcome certain unwanted affects that getting older can have. Strictly speaking about fitness, age can be detrimental because our bodies are inching towards the end of their life cycle. Muscles lose mass, strength and elasticity. Bones become brittle and cellular healing capacity declines.

Self Care looks different to everyone but these are my go tos for fitness and self care:

-Flexibility and Mobility Training

-Percussion and Massage Therapy

-The use of props/appropriate safety personal protective equipment when working out (i.e. – wearing good running shoes, using blocks and straps in yoga, wearing waist and knee braces if I’m lifting heavy).

-Knowing WHEN and HOW to rest my body

2. KNOW YOUR LIMITS

I’m not saying that you shouldn’t push or challenge yourself. You absolutely should! Yet there is a fine line between pushing yourself and injury. If we know our body’s ability to heal isn’t 100 percent, why would we intentionally put it in a position where it has to?

By knowing my limits I am effectively listening to my body. Understanding that running a 7 minute mile isn’t impossible, but it might take me some months or years to get my cardio back to that level. While it might hurt my ego, I have to admit that physically I am not where I used to be AND physically it might take me longer to get back to where I once was. It’s about being honest with yourself and then moving forward accordingly.

3. CONTINUE TO SET GOALS

Continue to set goals, even though they may have changed. Goal setting is a motivation and accountability tool. We evolve as we age, so it makes sense that our goals will change. It’s still important to set them so that we can visualize and form a path towards what it is we are trying to achieve.

My fitness goals for this year are to improve my cardiovascular health. I want to be able to make running a daily habit. I also want to continue to grow in my yoga practice and improve my flexibility.

4. CONSISTENCY IS KEY

Like I said earlier, running would probably be easier for me if I had stayed consistent with it. Why is consistency key? It’s key because achieving a fitness goal doesn’t magically happen overnight. It takes hard work and dedication over a long period of time. If you’re always starting and stopping, it takes longer to get to where you want to go and every time you stop it becomes that much harder to start.

I don’t know about y’all, but I’m all about finding an eazier solution for the same outcome. So yea…. Consistency!!!

5. APPRECIATION

Appreciate where you’ve been, where you are, and where you’re going. This is all about offering yourself grace and understanding for where you are in your journey.

I honestly got mad when I realized I wasn’t running as fast or as long as I used to. Like legit mad, but then I paused. I thought to myself… ‘ you formed a healthy habit of running at the age of 11 and 24 years later you can still do that activity, just at a different level.’ Then I thought… ‘imagine what you can do in another 24 years if you’re consistent and intentional with the goal you want to achieve?!’

Taking a moment to give myself grace gave me the time to process the situation in a completely different way. A way that encourages and motivates me to do what I have to do.

A part of me is afraid of getting old. Afraid that I will lose the abilities that I have now. While that might be true, I realize that how I age isn’t something that’s completely out of my control and that I have the power to age with grace. I do not have to be bounded by fear.

I hope these tips are helpful to you all! Let me know what you’re doing to age gracefully into fitness!

NUTRITION AND FITNESS: THE ULTIMATE FRENEMIES

Nutrition and fitness are like best friends that don’t get along aka frenemies!!! The two go hand in hand but how many of us struggle with being successful in the gym and the kitchen at the same time?

I know I do!!

What I find most frustrating about leading a healthy lifestyle is the imbalance between the effect that nutrition and fitness have on the body. If I could just choose one to focus on, I would choose fitness. Unfortunately, you really can’t have one without the other and on top of that nutrition holds more influence on weight maintenance.

It feels like my mind and body are never on the same page. I can go hard in the gym but then go home and eat junk OR I can eat clean as a whistle but can’t convince myself to go to the gym. I’ll run a good two miles, do some strength training, be feeling myself, and literally my next thought is… “You deserve some fries!” Like why must I be this way???? LOL. I just want to be healthy AND eat pizza, French fries, and fruit snacks! I basically want to have my cake and eat it too!

That’s honestly why I want to learn more about nutrition. I know I struggle with balance in my diet, but I figure the more knowledge I have and the more research I do, the eazier it will be to form a balanced nutrition plan that I can actually stick with and enjoy!

Keep reading to see the approaches I recommend and use when trying to find an ideal diet.

1. FIND A NUTRITION GUIDE.

Find someone who knows more about nutrition than you do! If you’ve been struggling and you haven’t asked for help, it’s time. There is nothing wrong with getting advice from a professional.

I stumbled upon a Nutrition Coach when I signed up for a meal delivery service. I’m learning that I don’t know what I don’t know and instead of hoping that I’ll figure it out eventually, I’m going to ask!

2. APPROACH TRAINING YOUR MIND THE SAME WAY YOU TRAIN YOUR BODY.

Eating is just as mental as exercise. Working out requires intentionality and intensity and so does eating healthy.

I’ve found it’s a lot easier to stay on track if I set an intention for my nutrition goals and then hype myself up with each meal. What do I mean by “hype myself up?” Take the same phrases you tell yourself at the gym and insert a food/nutrition word. For example: GYM PHRASE – ” You did good sis, that workout was fire!!” FOOD VERSION – “You did good sis, that meal was fire!!” It might sound or feel silly, but it’s really just a way to give yourself positive feedback and make you want to do it again.

3. IDENTIFY HEALTHY FOOD THAT TASTES GOOD.

Some “healthy” food just tastes nasty. It’s literally a fact. It’s like someone made a rule that if it’s super healthy, it has to be bland and disgusting. Fortunately as the market and demand for healthy snacks and meals continues to grow, the recipes and ingredients are improving.

I like going to Trader Joe’s and Whole Foods to try the new new snacks and products on the market. I also get cooking ideas from content creators on Instagram and Pinterest.

4. MAINTAIN BALANCE.

The key is finding what works for you! What is the ratio that keeps you happy but doesn’t hinder your healthy lifestyle goals?

I think mine is probably 70:30. I’m definitely not an 80:20 person. I can consistently eat clean Monday through Friday afternoon, but Friday evening through Sunday afternoon I want to eat what I want to eat. The key is not to do it in excess.

If you’re a foodie like I am, the struggle is real trying to balance a healthy diet, your love for food and your dedication to fitness. Trust me, I get it!!!! I’ve said this often and I will say it again. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. If you can come up with a plan to help you stay on track it will be that much eazier! If you have any tips or tricks you use, drop them in the comments! Also, if you try my approaches, let me know what you think and stay tuned for my journey with a Nutrition Coach!!